A Christmas Plea ~ Pay a visit to the elderly and listen to their story



This Christmas I would love you to encourage your children or  grandchildren to visit elderly members of your family who live close by, or even friendly neighbours and listen to them tell a story. It would be wonderful to write it down and make a book of it to share.

There are many reasons for this:

  1. Memories elderly people have are precious and one day they may be lost forever.
  2. There are many elderly people who are lonely at Christmas, and at other times of the year too, and would love some company for a while.
  3. Many elderly people just love to tell stories!
  4. It builds a bridge and a bond between generations.
  5. We live in a world of fast technolgy and we are losing the gift of taking the time and truly listening to others.
  6. It’s just a lovely thing to do!


1. Ask your parents permission if you can ask an elderly person you know (it could be your grandma, grandpa or even great grandparents or neighbour) if they have a story they could tell you about their life.

2. You don’t even have to write it down at the time, you can do as I did and make a video and listen to it and write it down later. This will be a double blessing because you will have special videos too to treasure.

3. Make a little book of the story and illustrate it with photos or your own drawings.

At my last book signing at a Christmas Fair I gave away folded paper books to record the stories on but any form would be good, especially if illustrated with a photograph or your own pictures.002

If you’d like to share any of your stories with me you’d be more than welcome, but do ask your parents’ permission first to diana@dianamaryjackson.co.uk

As many of you know, my time spent with Norman was very precious and will live with me always. I was reading the Christmas edition of #TheBigIssue yesterday, which I buy from time to time, and their message struck a chord with me:

In their #lookoutforthelonely campaign @TheBigIssue say

  1. “Pop in and see (0r call) an older friend or relative regularly.”
  2. “Do your bit to help out when the colder weather hits from clearing paths and offering to do their shopping”
  3. “Get a free thermometer and Winter Wrapped Up advice guide from AgeUK on 0800 169 65 65”
  4. “Sign the HNS Winter Friends pledge to do your bit for neighbours in the cold weather by visiting nhs.uk/WinterFriends”
  5. “Suss out volunteering opportunities with local groups or AgeUK, contact the Royal Voluntary Service, Independence Elderly or Friends of the Elderly.”

If you think this is a good idea please share, tweet, blog, send it by email or even better talk about it. This will be my last post until after Christmas now, because my family Christmas begins this Sunday, so I want to thank you for your growing support and to wish you all a lovely Christmas and a Happy 2014!




About Diana Jackson

Author of 'The Healing Paths of Fife', Historical Romantic fiction ~ The Riduna Series set in 19th and early 20th Century a murder mystery ~ 'Murder, Now and Then' and two memoir. What links my books ~ history! Website:www.dianamaryjackson.co.uk Blog:www.dianamj.wordpress.com Riduna on Twitter and on Facebook too!
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3 Responses to A Christmas Plea ~ Pay a visit to the elderly and listen to their story

  1. Pat says:

    Hi Diana — so true. There are many stories to be told and passed down the generations. Funny, I guess hubby and I are moving into those elderly realms though we don’t look at ourselves that way. A different perspective when looking at it from the other end — hmmm. 🙂

    Happy Friday and hope you have a great weekend, my friend.

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